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Though I answered the second question above with a “No”, I do want to chime in and say white people wanting to bone white people isn’t racism by default (certainly not ‘textbook racism’ whatever that is). I’ve never really been attracted to black women, and I’m assuming if it wasn’t for going to school with a bunch of Mexicans I probably wouldn’t be as attracted to Mexicans as I am. A lot of it has to do with familiarity, I’m assuming there’s a lot of places here in the US where a white person’s chances of being surrounded by non-white women/men on a daily basis is pretty slim. I’m assuming that if I had gone to a school where it was 60% black instead of 60% hispanic, I’d probably be really really into black chicks. As it is, I’m a white guy who likes white girls and Mexican girls, and has never really been into black chicks and can’t even begin to imagine dating an Asian girl. Maybe it’s just a coincidence that I grew up in an area/went to school with a very low population of blacks and Asians.

October 5, 2009 at 5:50 pm
ndkid says:
I think periapt makes a point: do we want to define one’s personal preferences as “-isms”? If so, that means every person of faith (including agnostics) who only want to date within their faith are religious bigots; everyone who has an age range is an ageist, and everyone who wants their partner to be able to put together complete sentences is an intellectual-elitist snob.

Personally, I’m comfortable with that… the fact is the vast majority *are* racists; we *do* discriminate by age, looks, religion, skin color, and a myriad of other factors.